Q: Does massage always have to involve sex? A: No, it does not always have to involve sexual activities. Massage can beneficially be given to infants and it is a common practice among mothers in many different cultures. Massage can be done for the purpose of relaxation or for relieving the symptoms of certain ailments. The image of massage as a specifically sexual activity probably comes from commercial advertisements for the so-called "massage parlors", with pictures of beautiful women sitting naked in bathtubs. In fact there are many legitimate massage facilities in many countries around the world where the masseurs or masseuses are required to have adequate training and, in some cases, even licenses before they can practice. Q: Once a person is massaged they will "develop the habit" and become dependant on the massage, they will feel "achy" even though they never felt like that before having massage. A: Massage can draw people or family members together and create intimacy and understanding among them, but it is definitely not addictive and does not cause a habitual and painful longing for it. Q: Is massage for the weak and sluggish? Is it a luxurious activity for the affluent; not suitable for the general population? A: Massage is essential to good health. It has to do with people who are attentive and feel in charge of their own health and the health of those around them. There are people who devote their lives to their work and to earning a high income. Such people may become highly successful and knowledgeable in many ways, but without proper care and understanding of their own bodies and minds, in the end their appreciation of their wealth and achievements is marred by poor health or chronic illness-the price they usually have to pay for their so-called "successful life". Q: Does one need to be big and strong or muscular to be able to give good massages? Will a small or thin person be able to do well? Can massage be very tiring since massage is hard work? A: With proper learning and practice you will see that you don't need big muscles or extreme strength to give a massage and, if it is done properly, you should not feel exhausted after giving a massage; instead, you should feel relaxed, alert and refreshed. |
